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Module 5 – Blame & Fear


  • Have the tools and knowledge to get to a more honest, self-compassionate place


  • Differentiate between blame and responsibility and apply this to your internal narrative
  • Identify sources of blame from the past that are still influencing who you are and what you do today
  • Establish a more honest position regarding situations where you’ve blamed you entirely for what occurred
  • Reduce bullshit about Other People’s Behaviour
  • Use knowledge and awareness gained to face your fear, doubt and blame, and begin the process of clearing out
It’s Time To Offload Blame: Understanding Blame & Why Your Childhood Experiences Have Turned You Into a Blame Absorber. Read | Listen

The Circle Of Blame & The One False Move Mentality. Read

Understanding the Concept of Balanced Ownership – A must read if you have an overactive blame ‘thyroid’. Read

The Blame Buster Workbook. Editable PDF

The Doubt Buster Workbook. Editable PDF

The Fear Buster Guide. Editable PDF

Please note, you need the Fears vs Beliefs worksheet. You may also need the Get Out Of Stuck 21 lessons (they’re in your Beliefs module) and the The Doubt Buster Workbook (above) and you need Stop, Start, Continue (from the Boundaries module) for the last part of the workbook.

Mini ebook Curbing Your Obsession. Download PDF.

Facing Regret | Journaling Guide. Download PDF.
This is something that students have used on my archived No Contact course but the questions on here are relevant outside of NC situations.


These are core resources that are the foundations of the Baggage Reclaim philosophy. I refer to them time and time and time again—they are all powerful tools that have been a fundamental part of my own transformation.

Journaling Tips

Self-Care Practices For Working With Me

Feelings Diary | Journaling Guide

The Unsent Letter Guide

How to Write Letters to Your Younger Self

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